Psychology Today61%
When Guns Enter Teen Relationships 10%
By Romeo Vitelli Ph.D.10%
8/3/2026, 11:42:01 AM
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Teen dating violence can involve insults, controlling behavior, sexual coercion, or physical assault.
In some relationships, it also involves a firearm.
Although firearms are the most common weapon used in adolescent intimate partner homicides, relatively little research has examined how guns are used before anyone is killed.
A firearm may be displayed, pointed, or mentioned during an argument.
A teenager may threaten to shoot a partner, another person, or themselves.
Even pretending to have a gun can be used to intimidate or control someone.
Now, a new study published in *Psychology of Violence* suggests that these behaviors may be far more common than many adults realize.
A Hidden Form of Dating Violence
In the study, a team of researchers led by Laura Stevens of Vanderbilt University in Nashville, TN, studied 722 adolescents attending four public high schools in one county in the southeastern United States.
All had been in a dating relationship, and their average age was just over 16.
Nearly half identified as Black, and about one in five identified as a sexual or gender minority.
Two of the schools served especially high-poverty communities.
The researchers developed a 10-item measure of firearm-related dating violence with input from community members, young adults, firearm owners, and local researchers.
The questions covered ways to threaten, coerce, or harm a dating partner with firearms.
More than 15 percent of the adolescents reported experiencing at least one form of firearm-related dating violence.
Another 8.6 percent reported perpetrating it.
That translates to roughly one in seven being victimized and one in 12 acknowledging that they had used some form of firearm-related threat or intimidation against a partner.
The most common form of victimization involved a dating partner threatening to shoot someone else as a way of frightening or controlling the adolescent.
The most common form of perpetration involved pointing at a partner as though the teenager had a gun, even when no weapon was present.
These acts may seem less serious than firing a gun, but it's important to remember that threats can escalate.
They can also produce fear and psychological harm even when no physical injury occurs.
4 Patterns of Firearm-Related Dating Violence in Teen Relationships
The researchers identified four distinct groups, the largest of which consisted of adolescents reporting little or no dating violence.
A second group experienced mainly psychological aggression, while a third group reported both psychological and physical violence without firearms.
The fourth group, which represented about 6 percent of the sample, experienced firearm-related dating violence.
These adolescents were not involved in isolated firearm incidents.
They also reported high levels of physical and psychological aggression.
Firearm involvement appeared to be part of a broader and more severe pattern of relationship violence.
There was also no clear separation between victims and perpetrators.
Adolescents who reported using firearm-related behaviors against a partner often reported experiencing similar behaviors themselves.
This does not excuse violence or make both partners equally responsible.
It does suggest, however, that some teenage relationships are marked by mutual aggression, instability, and shared exposure to other risks, including family violence, unsafe schools, substance use, and community violence.
The Mental Health Warning Signs for Dating Violence
Adolescents involved in any form of dating violence reported poorer mental health than those in the uninvolved group.
However, the firearm-related group differed in other ways.
They reported more substance use and were more likely to have experienced suicidal thoughts than adolescents in every other group.
They also reported more physical symptoms linked to emotional distress.
Because the study measured everything at one point, it cannot show what came first.
Firearm-related violence may worsen mental health, existing distress may increase vulnerability to violent relationships, or both may arise from other underlying problems.
Whatever the direction, the combination of firearm threats, substance use, and suicidal thinking should be treated as a serious warning sign.
A firearm threat during a dating conflict is not simply poor judgment or a disciplinary issue.
It may indicate a young person facing several potentially lethal risks at once.
The Role of Poverty and Structural Risk
Some of the strongest findings involved school poverty.
About one-third of dating adolescents attending high-poverty schools reported firearm-related victimization, compared with fewer than 15 percent at the other schools.
At some high-poverty schools, as many as one-quarter reported perpetrating at least one firearm-related act.
At lower-poverty schools, fewer than 2 percent reported firearm-related victimization.
These differences should not be interpreted as evidence that certain racial or economic groups are naturally more violent.
High-poverty schools often sit in communities affected by unstable housing, limited employment, inadequate health services, fewer recreational opportunities, and chronic exposure to violence.
In many cities, these conditions reflect a history of redlining, segregation, discriminatory development, and deliberate underinvestment.
The authors emphasize that structural disadvantage, not race itself, is central to understanding these disparities.
Blaming individual teenagers is easy.
Addressing the conditions in which violence develops is much harder.
Who Faced the Greatest Risk of Firearm-Related Dating Violence?
Male adolescents were more likely to belong to the firearm-related group and were about twice as likely to report perpetrating firearm-related dating violence.
Sexual and gender minority adolescents were also at elevated risk.
Compared with heterosexual and cisgender students, they were almost twice as likely to report firearm-related victimization and were more likely to appear in every dating violence group.
Stigma may make it harder for these adolescents to seek help.
Some may fear being rejected by family, dismissed by school staff, or involuntarily outed if they disclose abuse.
An abusive partner can exploit that isolation.
Again, identity is not the cause.
The greater risk likely reflects discrimination, reduced access to support, and barriers to protection.
Asking the Questions Adults Often Avoid
Adolescence is when many people first learn how romantic relationships work.
It is also when patterns of jealousy, control, conflict, and aggression may first emerge.
Healthy relationship programs typically emphasize communication, consent, and emotional regulation.
This study also suggests that we must include firearm-specific questions.
Adults should not assume that teenagers will volunteer this information.
Young people may not recognize threats as abuse, especially when no weapon was fired.
For this reason, parents, school counselors, physicians, and therapists may need to ask the following questions directly:
* Has a dating partner ever mentioned or displayed a gun during an argument?
* Has anyone threatened to shoot themselves, the teenager, or another person?
* Has a weapon been used to frighten someone or prevent them from leaving?
* Does either partner have access to firearms?
While these questions are uncomfortable, avoiding them is far more dangerous.
Before the Trigger Is Pulled: Taking Action to Reduce the Risk
Even the study’s authors admit to its current limitations.
First of all, it only involved students from one southeastern county and cannot show whether its findings apply elsewhere.
It also relied on self-report and cannot determine whether firearm-related violence caused the mental health problems associated with it.
Still, the results reveal a form of teen dating violence that has received far too little attention.
A gun does not need to be fired to change a relationship.
The threat alone may be enough to silence a partner, prevent a breakup, force compliance, or create lasting fear.
The central lesson is clear: Firearm-related dating violence often begins before a shooting.
Prevention means identifying suicidal thinking, reducing firearm access during crises, teaching healthy relationship skills, providing confidential services for marginalized youth, and investing in communities where poverty and violence have been allowed to reinforce one another.
Waiting until a firearm is discharged means waiting too long.
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